"Join me on the Bridge" 03-08-14 Remarks by Branville McCartney
Mr. McCartney was indeed humbled for the opportunity to address women
on International Women's Day at the event "Join me on the Bridge" in
Freeport, Grand Bahama. He was the first male to be chosen to speak at
this event since its inception.
"A Celebration of Women"
The woman.
The better half.
The backbone of society.
The one behind every good and successful man.
Nature
has, for the most part, made her physically less intimidating than
man. But although she may be, or appear to be, the physically weaker of
the sexes, she is
always the strength of a nation.
If
her work is never done, it is because caring for current and future
generations is a full-time, all-consuming, and lifelong work, in and out
of the home.
As once expressed by Margaret Thatcher,
"...if you want anything said, ask a man. If you want anything done, ask a woman."
To my colleagues, to the organizers and patrons of
Join Me On the Bridge,
to our visitors, and to all of you here with me, it is my great
pleasure to be with you today, and to speak to you, in celebration of
International Women's Day.
It has been 51 years since
women got the vote in our Bahamas, but, in many ways, they continue to
fight for some very fundamental rights by way of activism in women's
equality. And these rights, in large part, are very slow to realize,
because the basic tenet of women's equality begins with the
perception of women's equality. Changing a perception is - and has always been - more challenging than changing a law.
There
are many facets of our society that continue to move us along in the
antiquated ways of the past, never truly giving light and precedence to
the importance of women's empowerment. And there are many people who
remain ignorant of, or negligent in, the ongoing pursuit of gender
equality for Bahamian women.
So much that women have
accomplished in business, in government, and in their home lives, goes
unnoticed, or is taken for granted. So much that is not right, but is
considered tradition, is overlooked, disregarded, and continued, because
complacency and status quo are easier than improvement.
To
this day, a Bahamian woman's child, unless born to a Bahamian man, is
not born a Bahamian citizen. It is a frustrating, unfair, and sexist
position, the origins of which are remarkably archaic and equally
unbelievable. But this is something passed down into our laws from
centuries ago, in a world where men were even more boldly regarded and
treated as more human and worthwhile than women.
And these laws were written by men, of course...
men who,
for all the good that comes their way when women are content, have
never sought to rectify this injustice once and for all, by fully
aligning themselves with women in the cause for women's equality.
It is now up to the men who stand strong in this era, to ensure that
women who, of their wombs birth generations of brilliant men
and women,
can pass on their Bahamian citizenship to the children they give birth
to anywhere in the world, and with a spouse who possesses any
nationality.
Women are discriminated against, even in the
workplace, with respect to their opportunities for career advancement
and the equality of their pay for doing the same jobs men do. This is a
more subtle, yet still prevalent, occurrence of the inequality of the
sexes. But there is no reason, whatsoever, why a woman who has the same
education and training as her male counterpart, goes to the same school
that he does, has the same work experience that he does, should ever be
considered unequal to him, or incapable of leading a company or a
government (or a family) to success, at an income that is equivalent to
the one he will be offered.
I have a wonderful,
hardworking, and beautiful mother. I have wonderful, hardworking, and
beautiful sisters. I have a wonderful, hardworking, and beautiful
wife. I have wonderful, hardworking, and beautiful daughters. I have
wonderful, hardworking, and beautiful aunts. They are all dear to my
heart. And as important as my mother, my sisters, my wife, aunts, and
my daughters are to me, so are the issues of women's rights, women's
equality, and women's empowerment.
I want my daughters to
grow up in a country... in a world... which is fair to them, and does
not assume that because they are beautiful, feminine, or female, makes
them any less qualified to do important work. And the only way I can
help them to live the lives they deserve is to do my part as their
father, and as a
man, to ensure that right is done by and for
them. And I encourage each of you - man, woman, boy, or girl - to
recognize, respect, and advocate for the equal value and rights of the
women of our country.
When the whole Bahamas does this,
along with the whole of America, the whole of the United Kingdom, the
whole of Europe, the whole of India, the whole of Africa, etc., it
changes the world we live in for the better..... and for the long
haul.
Men can, in support of all women, in their ongoing
fight for full equality, be good, responsible, and fair fathers to
their daughters, husbands to their wives, sons to their mothers, and
bosses to their employees, affording women and girls the opportunities
to dream and to realize their dreams, to grow and flourish in them, to
stand firm in their convictions, and to express the ideas and sentiments
that change nations.
"What would men be without women?" the esteemed author, Mark Twain, asked in his writing. To his own question, he replied,
"scarce sir... mighty scarce."
The
condition of women's equality in The Bahamas today, particularly the
ill-conceived notion that a woman is a man's possession, punching bag,
servant, or source of pleasure and nothing more, is a direct result of
the fact that men (and women) have not sought to make it different, and
ultimately better, for all women.
Let us not allow this to be the case, after now.
Ladies
and gentlemen, I thank you for allowing me to share this special day
with you. I hope you will enjoy it and to all of you a good afternoon.
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